Have you ever not been able to recall what you did in a day? How about realizing after driving a familiar route that you were on “auto pilot”? Each of us has moments where our thoughts run amuck and we miss out on experiencing what we are actually doing. It is very common, especially in today’s world when we are often run by our calendars and live by the clock. Living this way, however, is what causes us to feel like we lose time. Days pass by, months vanish and before we know it, it is the next year and we didn’t even feel it coming. This has become the norm for most of us and in the process, we are losing precious moments and experiences we will never get back.
Practicing mindfulness helps us truly live this moment, without allowing ourselves to be distracted by the past or the future. When we truly embrace all this moment has to offer, our senses can truly take in all that is around us. This creates a feeling of freedom and pure enjoyment that we rarely allow ourselves to experience. Whether it is eating dinner with a friend, playing with your children or even working on a project at work, by giving yourself the gift of being in that moment you will have more fulfilling relationships and be more effective.
Being mindful is an ongoing practice that takes constant awareness. To begin, there are a few techniques you can use. Give some of these a try and see how you can continue to expand your practice into all areas of your life.
- Take a moment and look around the room you are in and absorb every detail. Close your eyes and see how much you remember. Do this once a day and you will see it eventually become a habit to take in all around you.
- Close your eyes and focus on your breath, releasing any thought that comes your way gently. Doing this for a few minutes every day will bring you into the moment and create a stillness that will carry into anything you do next.
- The next time you are in a conversation with your spouse, partner or child truly listen to every word. Don’t allow yourself to think about what you want to say next or what you have to do later. Simply listen to them and be present.
- Sit outside for a moment everyday and look at the sky. Take in the beauty, releasing any thoughts that try to distract you.
All any of us really has is this moment. Don’t allow yourself to miss out on it!
Just a few announcements…
Reach Your Potential Community Calls have moved! They will now be held on the first Wednesday of every month at 8pm AZ time. This is a free call created to come together and support each other in reaching our potential. This is a space to experience a judgement-free, supportive environment to share ideas, experiences and gain some inspiration to reach your goals. Bring your positive energy and love for the success of others! Register here!
The next Reiki I training is 3/14. The first degree is open to everyone and provides the basic techniques for hands on treatments to provide self healing and healing to others. The class will include a history of Reiki, the Gassho Meditation technique, and multiple attunements (Reiju). After this training you will be able to conduct effective healing sessions. Space is limited so please register ASAP if you are interested.
With immense gratitude – April